Good morning beautiful, hope you slept good go kick some ass today. Is it too late to tell you that…? In case you haven’t noticed I am trying to send you a good morning text. Most of us don’t get a good morning text, so I thought I should be a ray of sunshine 😘. The topic is “just rants #1” because there are too many things to rant about and it can’t fit in one post 🤣, so there will definitely be more episodes.
So I am just gonna dive into the issue of today, there is something people do that pisses me off. First I wanna tell y’all a story. When I was in my final year at the university, I went to class at night with a group of friends who happen to be my course mates to prepare for an examination, on our way back to my hostel they started teasing me about my weight and that has always been a sensitive issue for me so I got mad and walked away. They obviously realized they had annoyed me, I was more annoyed because I thought they were friends enough to notice that it was a sensitive issue but they didn’t. I have this thing I do whenever I get into a disagreement with someone, I try to replay the scene and see if I just overreacted, sometimes I explain it to someone else to see if my reaction was justified. I was already thinking to myself that I may have just gotten a little bit into my feelings ( Btw it is very okay to get in your feelings once in a while and don’t ever let anyone make you feel like you overreacted about how you feel).
The next day they saw me in class and “apologized”, the apology went like “Coco I am sorry for what happened, but haba why would you get angry, if people tease me about my height I don’t get angry I just laugh about it or I make fun of my height myself”. What went on in my head was “what kind of half ass apology was that?, why didn’t she just stop at “I am sorry”?, and most importantly why did she have to compare my feelings with hers?”, so I ended up ignoring the apology. We sorted things out in the end by letting it slide.
My point is when someone says you have hurt or annoyed them, just ducking (😂 I am trying to swear less) apologize. A “but…” should never be included and you shouldn’t use how you would feel about something to judge how someone entirely different from you should feel about that same thing. You are only entitled to how you feel bitch (🤭😊😂 I couldn’t help it, excuse my French), “I am sorry” isn’t hard to say. People are fighting different battles, be it physically, psychologically, mentally or even emotionally, so try as hard as possible be the rainbow in the lives of people around you.
In the spirit of rants, there are another group of lunatics I thought I should address. Those people that use people’s flaws for their amusement and other people’s amusement, what is your aim in life..?. Incase no one has informed you, you ain’t funny bruh you just a stupid bully. Honestly I think it’s just pathetic that the only way you can deal with your insecurities is to project other people’s own, you may not be aware but that’s actually what you are doing and I feel sorry for you. The only reason you can be allowed to make fun of someone’s flaws is if you are flawless and have you look in the mirror lately hun..?, you ducking scream insecure. Funny enough this group of personas can’t handle being mocked, ridiculous right 🤣 so you see why I feel sorry for them. Like why do something to someone that you won’t like when done to you, are you normal atall..?.
A piece of advice: don’t think you can get away with such act with me, dude Imma hit back and I hit below the belt. Once I meet you, I notice at least one thing that you are insecure about incase you decide to be a lunatic (that’s the mechanism I derived to cope). So when you act shitty to me I act more shitty, trust me even I know my tongue is poisonous. If you don’t have anything nice to say just SHUT THE DUCK UP!.
So I have been thinking about posting more than once a week, I would really like to know what y’all think. By the way, my sound for the week is Ali Gatie.
Xoxo coco
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